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Are you judging me? Here is how to do it.

 Hi, I have find out that people are more interested in judging their fellow humans than trying to help them. You can hear them say, 


"That one is a fool, that one cannot make it or they've brainwashed that one!" Good, what business of yours is it? 


I guess the more more people go into the business of helping, correcting and tolerating people, the more human beings become regenerated rather than being condemned. Yes, judgement leads to condemnation most of the time. Besides, you are not God! 


If you are judging people, there is also one who is judging you! Yes, such is life - nobody is above mistake but that is not an excuse for committing crimes because some mistakes are terrible. 


Here is how to judge me. If you're already judging me, this would go a long way in helping you do it better. Though, I cannot stop you from judging me, I hope you desist for your own good! 


1. Facts.

Get your facts right before you go into the business of judging people because it would look like starting a business without capital if you go on judging people without holding the facts about those people or what they've done. The outcome of this is that you might end up judging those people wrongly and even if you find out that you are wrong, you might still stand on your wrong because of ego. Relinquish the idea of judging people due to hearsay, speculations or gossip. 


2. Understand


Understanding is different from knowledge. You can pack one third of the world's knowledge into your brain and still not be able to understand anything. That is why some people would go to such schools as Harvard Medical School, Harvard Law School or even John Hopkins University, become lawyers, barristers, medical doctors, writers, elites, engineers, intelligent officers and presidents and still not be able to understand the simple truth that Jesus is Lord and they are still hell-bent on judging people just to show that they're superior. Now, this does not apply to you if you're officially a judge. I am talking about people who go out to ridicule others just because of envy. Good job! 


3. Consider.

You also has to be judged. That is one thing that you should consider. When you go out to hate on people due to what you have been told about them, remember that you are not above the law and you are not God. The more you are judging others, the more you give people what to judge about you and you know, one good turn deserves another. So, mind your business untill you're are called and even at that, you've to make sure it's something you can handle. 


The truth is that before you go out judging people, you have to understand that somethings are above us as humans. That someone got divorced doesn't mean the person is totally bad, that someone got convicted for a crime does not make that person the worst person on Earth and the fact that you know little or nothing about a person does not mean that you should frame the person up with false information. 


In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.

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